There's this thing guys do in the throes of hot sex , and you might not even notice. We pause, and we look. Because when you're totally in the moment, you put on one hell of a sexy show, and we love to watch. The thing is, visual cues are a major part of the sexual response for men. Your body has a hypnotic power over us—during sex or otherwise. Curious about what's really running through our minds?
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Last year in a post about the truism "sex sells," I asked:. Instead, we see, primarily, women sold to presumably heterosexual men. So what are we selling, exactly, if not "sex"? I argued that what was really being sold was men's presumably heterosexual sexual subjectivity, the experience of being a person in the world who was presented with images that were for his titillation. Women do not live in the world this way. They are not exposed everyday to images that legitimize their lust; instead, the images teach women that they are the object of that lust.
Forget flowers. Forget candlelight. Nothing serious is going to start from sending a dick picture. You can get turned off way more easily than getting turned on. So there you have it, folks.
And, if it is sexual arousal, does that happen only in seeing a naked woman magazine, strip joint, porn or does that happen when you see a beautiful clothed woman as well? I have always been very curious about this as I think it is very different for women. Men, regardless of relationship status, get a chemical high in seeing attractive women. Because monogamy lowers the chances that our genes will survive, men are not, by nature, monogamous creatures. But make no mistake, monogamy is a choice, not a natural state.